In today’s nuclear age, which is highly characterized by fast paced n high geared lifestyle , turbulent n abysmal economic n social conditions , a sense of insecurity n Megalomania has gripped one n all. Every 1 of us is strugglin to survive n evolve..Every1 wanna “ Reach at d top”, “ Make a mark”, b redolent wid power n moolah...… Amidst all this man surely has turned selfish..
We all need 2 realize dat this top geared ride of life is surely gonna meet a fatal dead end…...Imagine dis… "Yo r the d most admired corporate honcho,",..... or "Yo r d world’s richest person livin in d lap of ostentious luxury".. . Yo feel as if yo r God’s favourite child… eternally blessed…….n den suddenly someday wen d limelight fades away , yo realize dat all d adulation , success , glamour n your yearnin, blind chase 2 accomplish yr materialistic desires has come at a very heavy price.. D people around yo r sheer sycophants, yr family life is in a turmoil, relations r in absolute mess…. The whole world might exalt your achievements but yo may not b considered as d perfect patriach at home n miss out on d adulation n love of yr luvd ones… ????
In dis never endin chase 4 fame n glory wot suffers most is our family life.. n people realize it too late......So heres a simple mantra"4B" which guarantees a happy family life… [ Prescribed by His Holiness Shri Bhupendra bhai Pandya ji ]… m sure ne1 who abides by it wil surely njoy peace , harmony , n luv in his life…
4B includes Bhajan , Bhojan, Bhraman n Bhashan…….
BHAJAN: We all take bout spirituality , God, religion ..but wot xactly is all dis?? I guess v few people wil b able 2 answer it presicely…But yup knowin dis in its truest sense is d need of d hour… Every family shud spare at least 5 mins 2gthr n pray 4 d well being of d family..It reinforces d family ties n is surely an inherent part of our rich Indian culture… It also has scientific backing as it accentuates d flow of positive energy…..
BHOJAN: Itzz so vv rightly said “ A family dat eats 2gthr stays 2gthr.” At least 1 meal 2ghtr in a day is highly prescribed…n make sure dis is time reserved exclusively 4 yr family….[ Idiot box n cel phones highly restricted ]
BHRAMAN : Every family shud go on a vacation 2gthr at least once in a year… m nt sayin it always shud b d most exotic locale...... yet … Itzz tym where yo n yr family rejenuvate, reinvent yrself, spend quality time 2gthr….. in short tym 2 CHILLAX!!!:)
BHASHAN: Miscommunication or may b lack of communication is truly takin d spark outta our family life…D Gen X feels dat der parents aint able 2 understand der views n dey wanna break free of d mould on d pretext of “ GENERATION GAP”…. Parent's advice is sheer cacophony for dem… On d flip side, even parents shud try 2 identify wid d problems n pressures of der kids n instead of actin like d martinet , shud guide d child n lead him on d right path.. Lend a ear 2 yr kids problems rather dan being a taciturn 2 der opinions n Ideologies…… so talk n discuss stuff,,,,, Share yr happiness n sorrow 2ghtr………
To sum it up , I wil Jst say dat evry1 of us shud take out some tym out of our hectic schedules n utilize d tym in building sociable, genial, cordial n affable family ties…. Never consider family life as trivial… n break free of d lack of conflicts n insecurities dat dampen n weaken yr family bonds….. Investin tym in bondin n strengtenin family ties wil surely reap grand benefits.. n no amount of moolah can buy it 4 yo!!!!..
JOIE DE VIVRE :):):)
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