Thursday, September 3, 2009

NOTHIN SUCCEEDS LYK SUCCESS :):)

Very firstly a veryyyyyyyyyy biggg hug 2 mah blog..... neglected it bigg tym :P....... but m back again.. n i confess i missed mah blog.... thoda sa :P
hmmmm..... so yo mite b wonderin y ol of a sudden dis sudden outburst of luv 4 mah blog...... well d reason is mah ca results... it took meh 2 days 2 absorb d fact dat i m an inter CA now...... gosh....... ask meh how madly i studied 4 it.... but wil confess studyin was absolute fun... luvd it big tym too........ n wel d entire credit goes 2 mah Mom n Dad... dey had been mah pillars of strength rite 4m d beginnin... dis space is toooooooo insufficient 2 thnk dem.Thank ya guys......... dis success is more of yrs than mines........ n equally d credit goes 2 mah supa kewl, supa sweet sis... i confess it publicly on mah blog dat had mah sis not been der writin d xamzz n studyin wid meh , i wudnt hv been eva able 2 crack it... she ws mah partner in crime n mah absolute strength........... ol mah success is hers first n den mines........ luv ya soooooooooooooo mch bebo:):):)......... sachi......:)

Also i had been really gutsy wid joinin d finalzz classses b4 d results.....[yup sounds weirdo ... but m already half dunn wid mah classes :P:P..n nopes dis ws not cuz iws ova confident bout mah results but wanted 2 break free of d monotonous studyin schedule n try sumthin adventorous]]......... but dats wokies....... luvin dem too...... lyfs been really really hectic...... but m so happy... touchwud... mah best frnd natasha is leavin 4 australia n wil miss her.... also der r few ppl widout whom i wud not hv been able 2 crack it... mah sis as olready mentioned, mah best buddy Maitry[ mah life n breath], Rahul [ mah best buddy....thnx sooo mch], jayshri [ gal yo rock... every advice of yrs is amazin......m blessed 2 hv ya] Rajni,Tejas, Kushal,Rasika, disha , vishal n ..gosh i can go on n on....[sowie if i missed outta on few names but yo kno wot yo ol mean 2 meh ] also ol d best wishes of mah frnzz paid off.........thnx sooooo mch guys...

n above ol d entire credit goes 2 d Supreme Lordhead ...n i mean it 4m d bottom of mah heart.......... thnxxxxxxxxx mah bhaguuuu :):):):)....... luv ya lotsaaaaaaa........:):)

jst wil conclude sayin dat nethin ....... i repeat... nethin in dis world can b achieved by hard work n dedication......... blessings do count as wel........ i studied hard only 4 d last 2 months 4 mah xamzz but dat ws lyk in a state of nirvana..... n its proven now dat t ws ol worth it........ i know m no success guru sharin mah tips but dis is d only key 2 success .....dat wot i kno.......hv d guts 2 call a spade n spade wen required n liv yr lyf 2 d fullest widout compromision on values n hard work :)...... thik hai ....enuff of gyaan sharin :P

also i m gonna go n show mah marksheet 2 mr vyas[ prof at jksc who olways believed dat i can never crack d xamzz....... bt nw i hv proved dat yo dun need 2 b a behenji wid plates n oiled hair n specs 2 b a ca.{ol due repects 2 d gals who prefer dis way ya...nuin personal }... yo can b hip n yet crack it :P:P]....

A biggggggggggg thnxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 2 every1 again.........:):) kip rockin :):).....

Friday, March 13, 2009

NOTTIN HILL!!!!!!

Well I had been completely neglectin mah blog 4 da lst few mnths... :(;(...Blame it on mah gruellin tirin schedules n D gr8 neva endin CA sylabbus..... Bt thnx Tejas yo kinda reminded meh of mah blog again :);).... But on a serious note ders lotsa stuff 2 write bt i gtta mah CA xamzz round d corner n dat tops mah priority list nw ..... neway....

It ws yesterday wen i ws dunn wid mah studies [well did i jss say "dunn"..nah..dats a misnomer 2 b used wen it cums 2 Ca studies :P;P]... n ws flipin thru d channels... [i jss watch mtv roadies dis days cuzz of rannvijay n Raghu..luv dem...n itzz justified....isnt it? i guess afta palaks entry itzz olmost becum a wwe show nw:P;P]... n 2 mah utter delight der ws one of mah fav movies... NOTTIN HILL...... although itzz been olmost 10 yrs since d film's release ,, n i have lost count of d no of times i saw it,, yet dis muvie seems as fresh n charmin 2 meh as eva!!!... Ders dis 1 particular dialogue in d movie which is v close 2 mah heart...[itzz mah fav... i luv hugh Grant n juliaa roberts ]...itzz d climax... wen Anna Scott enterss in2 D buk shop again n kindaa asks d actor if she cud see him again.....n dis is wot he replies....

Hugh: I stay in Nottin hill.....Yo stay in Beverley hills..... D whole world knows who YO r...n well mah mom has problem rememberin mah name"

Julia:.Yo kno.. d fame thing n ol isnt real... n DUNN FUHGET... I M ALSO JUST A GIRL STANDIN IN FRONT OF A BOY ASKING HIM 2 LUV HER "

[well d conviction which both d stars bring in d muvie is amazin... dey r rockin.... Although i m nt a die hard romantic at heart :P;P,, yet i believe dis is1 of d best romantic dialogues n muvies ever made....]...... hope yo njoy it too!!!!!! tacay!!!!.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE :)

Flashback... 23rd January 2009, d official release date in India... I ws waitin lyk a crazy felly 4 dis muvie 2 hit d moviehalls .. n after all d accolades n critical acclaim it had garnered across d globe, complemented wid reviews 4m my frnzz [ Itzz d harsh truth bt yup,, each of moi frnd hd already seen d muvie on net or pirated dvd.....Bt i sumhw resisted dos pirated versions... m proud of moiself 4 dat.:):)]....d xcitement ws truly v high.... Finally i managed 2 gt tickets 4 FDFS[ trust meh, d xcitement of watchin a muvie FDFS is unparralel]...
D muvie started .. KBC backdrop, Jamal in d hotseat.. A question flashes on d screen n den d story beautifully unfolds... a breathless, exciting story, heartbreaking and exhilarating at the same time... For d rest of d story bttr go 2 yr nearest theatres n watch d muvie :P.[n beware!!! dunn act like a jerk 2 watch d pirated versions.....long live anti piracy:):)].....

By now[ n m dead sure bout it], d question bustlin in yr mind would b " Y d hell shud 1 go n c d muviee.... wotzz so special in d muvie"?..... well den, lemme give yo 5 reasons as 2 y yo shud go n watch it...

1. The movie is simply a " STUNNER" .. It doesn't happen often, but wen it does, look out: a movie dat rocks n rolls, dat transports, startles, delights, shocks, seduces. A movie dat is, quite simply, great.A terrific yarn, one so engrossing n surprising dat d nature of d story's structure -- each question Jamal gets asked on the show corresponds wid a traumatic or momentous moment 4m his childhood -- never feels lyk a contrived framing device. Lyk al good fairy tales, dis outsize celebration of perseverance n moral triumph contains within it a deeper idea -- in dis case, d relative nature of wot we think we know, n wot's worth knowing at ol . No doubt Dickens himself wud approve. ......

2. D movie has d best Ensembled cast ever possible.... watch it 4 itzz "superb characterization"[ Til date, D only movie i kno of wid d bst charecterization is "sholay"] ......Rite 4m d supatalented kids [ Rmbr d 3 Muskeeteers n d Taj Mahal scene...... GOsh dis kiddos r supastars... amazingly awsum....muahhhzzzz......kudos yo guys!!!!!] 2 d actors potrayin d trio's adolescent n teen days..... Every 1 in d movie has manged 2 deliver powerpacked performances.... Driven by fantastic energy n a torrent of vivid images of India old n new, dives headfirst in2 something greater dan a subculture - d enormous unchronicled culture of India's mega-slums - n achieves eva more sweeping impact. Dev Patel is sensational[ I Luvd him :)]..... D characters wil remain wid yo even afta yo step out of d movie hall.... BUt undoubtedly d real star of d film is not a person but a city, d vertiginous, exciting, massively overcrowded "maximum city" of Mumbai.

3. Watch it 4 " Danny Boyle"..... Itzz his fullest, most satisfying work... n bein an audience-pleaser, Boyle has been nothing if not bold wid dis film. He's dared 2 use so many venerable movie elements..... itzz dizzying, dared us 2 say we won't be moved or involved, dared us 2 say we r too hip 2 fall 4 tricks...... Boyle, in his premier style fills "Slumdog" wid ebullient energy n ceaseless invention. D entire film has d glibness of a music video...yet Boyle has successfully managed 2 mak dire poverty seem glossy. On 1 hand, d is environment of Dickensian, almost hallucinatory contrasts between rich n poor, good n evil feels perfect for Danny Boyle.

4. A.R .RAHMAN: Yup guys, his music forms an integral part of d film n every heart beat of yrs wil b in sync wid d background score ... Truly Rahman roxx,,,, All I cn say 2 him is "JAI HO"!!!!

5. Last but not d least , watch d movie cuzz i recommend it 2 yo :P:P:P;P

Nw Letzz go 2 d flip side , Wanna kno y yo shud not c d moviee?? Well personally i dint find even a single negative trait in it..... But many of mah frnzz had different opinions......Few said D muvie is too grim, too much of poverty is shown, India shud not hv been potrayed dis way on a global platform, D muvie is not dat extraordinary, D muvie is doin well in d west cuzz west lyks 2 c only dis poor dejected side of India..n bla bla bla..... Well. since ours is d biggest democracy n every1 has a freedom of speech , I guess i lent an ear 2 every1s reviews , but i dunn support der opinions...... cuzz i loved d muvie..

For moi itzz an almost ridiculously ebullient Bollywud-meets-Hollywud concoction--n one of d rare "feel-good" movies dat actually makes yo feel good, as opposed 2 merely jerked around. Lyk Mumbai, Slumdog pulses n throbs with raw, unadulterated lyf n d hope 4 a better Bombay, 2 day. Itzz brilliant. Despite itz elements of brutality, dis is a buoyant hymn 2 lyf, n a movie to celebrate. ..... n Itzz not dat only poverty has been showcased in d moviee..Itzz d reality......May b we wil nt b able 2 relate wid it cuzz we stay in our plush South Mumbai apartments...yet dat doesnt changes d truth.... Slums exist every where in d world....n Dharavi is as much a real part of mumbai as Nariman Point..... so y shy away 4m it????... Rathr ..we shud stop cribbin ova it n do sumthin 4 d development of d slums.... Treat d ppl outta der dem wid humanity....n letzz make a difference in der lives...Dey deserve 2 live well....BT dat surely is wot we INDIANS gtta do...... Also if ne1 thinks dat Boyle made d muvie wid an intention 2 show d poor abysmal India, ..Dude yo surely need 2 grease up yr rusted brains cuzz yo hv essentially missd outta on d essence of d movie...... D no bull honesty of d muvie hits yo hard , itss d real deal. Dunn we frown wen we c d beggars at d signals or in d local trains, n aint we responsible 4 d garbage around us?... JSs giv it a thought... Itzz in our hands hw we wanna our country 2 b perceived by d firangs.....Itzz easy 2 point a finger at odrs , bt we shud olways rmbr dat while doin dat , 4 fingers r facing yo!!!!! SO Rathr dan blamin Boyle.,, V shud strive hard n vow 2 make a difference 2 our developin economy.... As BJP puts it :INDIA SHININ"!!!!:)

To sum it up, I wud say dat I genuinely feel dat evry1 2 c d muvie.... N well Oscars or no Oscars..., who cares?? .. D movie is already a winner!!..I genuinely dunn believe in d oscar hype...... I luv our muvies ,, [eva if dey include singin n dancin in d rains.... itzz so mch fun :P:P:P......Hollywud...yo truly need 2 learn dis 4m us guys... at least dis cn add bit of our classy spicy masala 2 yr borin flicks!! :P]]....n oscars r no parameters 2 jugde our masala muvies........ ! n well 4 d ratin dis is wot NEW YORK TYMS says" 4 stars simply aren't enough for Danny Boyle's Slumdog Millionaire, which just may be the most entertaining movie I've ever labeled a masterpiece in these pages. "[thnx NYT 4 d ratin .......bt we already knew dat.. we dunn need d ratings neways!! ...rite guys???]....... So wot r yo waitin 4?? Book yr tickets , grab d popcorn n njoy "SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE"......[n do tel moi hw it ws!!!!!!!
......Really lukin fwd 2 it:):).........Tacay!!!!]


Friday, January 23, 2009

4B: THE MANTRA TO HAPPY FAMILY LIFE...

In today’s nuclear age, which is highly characterized by fast paced n high geared lifestyle , turbulent n abysmal economic n social conditions , a sense of insecurity n Megalomania has gripped one n all. Every 1 of us is strugglin to survive n evolve..Every1 wanna “ Reach at d top”, “ Make a mark”, b redolent wid power n moolah...… Amidst all this man surely has turned selfish..

We all need 2 realize dat this top geared ride of life is surely gonna meet a fatal dead end…...Imagine dis… "Yo r the d most admired corporate honcho,",..... or "Yo r d world’s richest person livin in d lap of ostentious luxury".. . Yo feel as if yo r God’s favourite child… eternally blessed…….n den suddenly someday wen d limelight fades away , yo realize dat all d adulation , success , glamour n your yearnin, blind chase 2 accomplish yr materialistic desires has come at a very heavy price.. D people around yo r sheer sycophants, yr family life is in a turmoil, relations r in absolute mess…. The whole world might exalt your achievements but yo may not b considered as d perfect patriach at home n miss out on d adulation n love of yr luvd ones… ????

In dis never endin chase 4 fame n glory wot suffers most is our family life.. n people realize it too late......So heres a simple mantra"4B" which guarantees a happy family life… [ Prescribed by His Holiness Shri Bhupendra bhai Pandya ji ]… m sure ne1 who abides by it wil surely njoy peace , harmony , n luv in his life…
4B includes Bhajan , Bhojan, Bhraman n Bhashan…….

BHAJAN: We all take bout spirituality , God, religion ..but wot xactly is all dis?? I guess v few people wil b able 2 answer it presicely…But yup knowin dis in its truest sense is d need of d hour… Every family shud spare at least 5 mins 2gthr n pray 4 d well being of d family..It reinforces d family ties n is surely an inherent part of our rich Indian culture… It also has scientific backing as it accentuates d flow of positive energy…..

BHOJAN: Itzz so vv rightly said “ A family dat eats 2gthr stays 2gthr.” At least 1 meal 2ghtr in a day is highly prescribed…n make sure dis is time reserved exclusively 4 yr family….[ Idiot box n cel phones highly restricted ]

BHRAMAN : Every family shud go on a vacation 2gthr at least once in a year… m nt sayin it always shud b d most exotic locale...... yet … Itzz tym where yo n yr family rejenuvate, reinvent yrself, spend quality time 2gthr….. in short tym 2 CHILLAX!!!:)

BHASHAN: Miscommunication or may b lack of communication is truly takin d spark outta our family life…D Gen X feels dat der parents aint able 2 understand der views n dey wanna break free of d mould on d pretext of “ GENERATION GAP”…. Parent's advice is sheer cacophony for dem… On d flip side, even parents shud try 2 identify wid d problems n pressures of der kids n instead of actin like d martinet , shud guide d child n lead him on d right path.. Lend a ear 2 yr kids problems rather dan being a taciturn 2 der opinions n Ideologies…… so talk n discuss stuff,,,,, Share yr happiness n sorrow 2ghtr………

To sum it up , I wil Jst say dat evry1 of us shud take out some tym out of our hectic schedules n utilize d tym in building sociable, genial, cordial n affable family ties…. Never consider family life as trivial… n break free of d lack of conflicts n insecurities dat dampen n weaken yr family bonds….. Investin tym in bondin n strengtenin family ties wil surely reap grand benefits.. n no amount of moolah can buy it 4 yo!!!!..
JOIE DE VIVRE :):):)

Saturday, January 17, 2009

SHAADI.COM

Heyy guys........Dis is 1 of d most hilarious........crazily bizzare fwded mails i hv ever got tiled " BEST OF MATRIMONIAL..U " LL DIE OF LAUGHTER!!"......Dis truly deserves a place in my blog space...... Trust meh....I had d maximum somersaults i ever had in my lyf evaa while readin it......Al d stomach muscles got a nice work out:)....Tears were rollin down ol ova my face..O GOSH!!!!!!....... Hope even yo all njoy it equally as I did!!!!! HERE IT GOES............



These are Boys ads taken from shaadi.com .These are actual ads on a matrimony site. Grammar and spell errors have no place in a profile description as everything is straight from the heart!


[Disclaimer : I m not responsible if yo fuhget yr basic grammar afta reading dis mail...



Hello To Viewers My Name is Shekhar , I am single i don't have female, If anyone want to Marie to me u can visit to my home. I am not a good education but i working all field in bangalroe.. if u like me u welcome to my heart...when ever u want to meet pls visit my resident or send u letter..Thanks yours Regards Shekhar ~*~

(ahem.. which field?)


i want very simple girl. from brahmin educated family from orissa state she is also know about RAMAYAN, GEETA BHAGABATA, and other homework (Homework??????)


Wants a woman who knows me better and can adjust with me forever. she may never create any difficulties in my life or her life by which the entire life can run smoothly. thank you
(D principle of running life smoothly ws never so easy!!!!!!)


she should be good looking and should have a service. she Should have one brother and one sister. she should be educated.(ain't it unique !! 1 bro 1 sis criteria !)



I am a happy-go-lucky kind of person. Enjoys every moments of life. I love to make friendship. Because friendship is a first step of love.



I am looking for my dreamgirl who will love me more than i. Because i love myself a lot. If u think that is u then why to late come on ........hold my hand forever !!!(The DDLJ effect :P)


i am simple boy.I have lot of problem in my life because of my luck.. now i am looking one gal she care me and love me lot lot lot

(Dun yo think dis is exclusively 4 dos horoscope readers yo c on aaj tak n dos crap horoscope shows...???)


My wife should be as 'Shivani' as in Kahani Ghar Ghar Ki and as Tanwerr as in KSBKBT......(Wokkies.... I havn't seen these soaps but m sure he must be demanding too much,ain't he? Afta all.... who says being bitchy is easy :P)


i want a girl with no drinks if she wants she can wear jeans in house but while stepping out of house she should give respect to our cast (By not wearing her jeans? Wot d hell...)



HYE I AM A GOOD LOKING BOY,WHO HAS THE CAPABILITY TO MAKE ANY BODY TO LOUGH. I BELIEVE IN GOD AND ACCORDING TO ME FRIENDS ARE THE REAL MESSENGER OF GOD. THE 3 THINGS I AM LOOKING FROM A GIRL, THEY ARE:1.THEY MUST BELIEVE IN GOD.2 . THEY HAVE TO LIKE MY PROFFESION AND THEY SHOULD NOT GET BORED WITH ME WHEN I WILL TRY TO MAKE THEM LOUGH.

(all of us are loughing{laughing})


whatever she may be but she should feel that she is going to be someone bride and she must think of the future life if she is too like this she would be called the woman of the lamp(I am clueless, I feel so lost. Can any1 puhleezzz temme wot this boy wants...huh!!!)



i love my patner i marriage the patner ok i search my patner and i love thepatner ok thik hai the patner has a graduate ok

(I m clueless again... bt I liked d use of "ok". The person is suffering 4m d "Ok-syndrome")



HI IAM VERY COOL NUATHER OK MY HOBBY IS SEE T.V AND NEWS OK I HAVE 1 CAR AND 1 BONWL OK MY MOTHER ALSO GOOD OK MY FARUET WORLD IS OK ( D "ok syndrome" again)



I am pran my family history my two brother two sister andFather&mother sister complity marred(somebody please explain in comments section how to get married 'completely'?)



i am very simpel and hanest. i have three sister one brother and parent. i am doing postal sarvice and tailor master my original resdence at kalahandi diste naw iam staing at rayagada dist.(actually wot is this guy doing? Postal service or tailor.??)



my name is muhamad and i am unmarried. pleaes you marrige me pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes(height of Desperation!!!!)



I want one girl who love me or my mother. she love me heartly or she have a frank she's skin colour 'normal' not a black or not a whitey. I Think the main think is heart if your heart is beautiful then you are beautiful. but iam not a handsome guy or not a good looking. but my Mom say that Iam a good guy. My father already expired . THE CHOICE IS YOUR. bye bye.(Uttama Purushan)



iam kanan. i do owo businas.one sistar.he was marred.(No comments)I AM LITTLE FAIR INDIAN COLOUR. I DON'T HAVE ANY HABIT.(Mayb d poor guy meant BAD habits)



hello i am a good charactarised man. i want to run my life happily.i divorced my first wife.her charactor is not good'. i expect the good minded and clean habits girl who may be in the same caste or other caste accepted ...(but credit cards not accepted..???)



my colour is black,but my heart is white.i like social service (Zebra..???)



i'm looking out for who lives in bombay, girl simple who trust me lot should be roman catholic, LOVE ME ONLY.(Now that criterion is a must, isn't it?)



to be married on jan-2006. working woman perferable.(Dis guy has fixed d weddin date too! But he is yet to find a bride.I wish him all d v best on behalf of all of us. I m sure he wil get 1 soon.)



i would like a beautyfull girl. and i do not want her any treasure. because girl is the maharani.(Now she is going to be a lucky girl! Any takers? )


ssc failed three times and worked with privated ltd company which not paying salary at present.(Any takers again?)



So wot say guys? :P
I'm still loughing! hihi :):)





Tuesday, January 13, 2009

TRADITIONS & CUSTOMS... BOON OR BONDAGE???????

Trin Trin... My cell phone rang like bizzare..[n i simply hate my cel disturbin me in my noon nap :P]..... Groanin, I sumhow answered d call ..D voice at d other end sounded familiar.... It ws my bst friends bro ... n he said " Ruchu Di , **** di got fixed up" [ sowie cnt put d name ]... I really got pissed off..[ dat happens wid meh wen sum1 wakes me up 4m sleep] n snarled back at him".. Dude, grow up..... n dis isnt April but Feb... so stop foolin me around"... Den he replied.." Di m nt foolin U ..dis is d truth ..D guy n his family had come 2 see her yesterday n they have answered in affirmation "..Now I sensed d xcitement in his voice n jumped out of my bed.. my heartbeats were racin faster wid every passin moment ... somehow i managed 2 come 2 my senses n told him " congo"... **** Di hai?/..He handed over d phone 2 my friend...I was about 2 shout my guts out on her... but as soon as she said hello .. i forgot everythin... i simply cudnt mistake n miss out d xcitement in her voice... i just congratulated her absentmindedly........

I headed towards my parkin ,took d car out n rushed 2 her place...There was chaos all around... D phone ws ringin incessently, and it ws a gala affair at her place..every1 ws rejoicin....D place ws freakily crowded.. Somehw i manged 2 find my way in n reached her... I hugged her tightly n told in her ears" i wanna have a word wid u..rite nw!!!!!!!!!" .. We both went in a secluded corner n I started bombardin her wid non stop questions..." R U mad? R u out of ur senses girl...Y do U need 2 tie D knot so soon?...N hw did it all happen...?/"" ..bla bla bla... i ws jst going on n on.... She simply responded " Chill ya... m happy.. All d elders in my family like him. dey chose him 4 me...Its all fixed up".... All hell broke loose upon meh... here i ws tryin 2 convince her 2 think over her decision again....n dis gal ws tryin 2 convince me d other way round... seems she had made up her mind... [ itzz true.. luv desenses u.. n ur brains stop workin:P...or mayb d concept of arranged marraige doesnt appeal 2 me at all..]......

Finally i came in terms wid d reality ...n sumhw managed 2 digest d fact dat yup dis is not a nightmare...itzz all real... den i asked her " Whose d guy? Where is he 4m?...bla bla bla.... Den she told me d name n all.... I came back 2 my place n googled his name... n alas!!! dis guy 's non existent on orkut as well as fb... doom doom doom doom:P:P...............

Next day I went 2 her place ....her engagement ws slated up 4 d same weekend... n den she ws all confused as 2 wot 2 wear n stuff? [ i guess girls r born wid d genes embedded wid d confusion traits]..... Finally I chose a Ritu Kumar creation 4 her...d detalilin on d saree ws so intricate n fab... bt it ws way tooo heavy in weight... so she ws a bit apprehensive on wearin it...bt sumhw i convinced her 2 wear it on d D day... Meanwhile i commented" I wonder how U will b able 2 mange dis saree ya?"....n suddenly aunty replied..".Beta ab toh isko shaadi ke baad sari hi pehni padegi.... she hs 2 get used 2 dis attire"....

O freak.. I simply cudnt believe my ears..n truly got out of my senses... my best friend wl b wearing saree all her life... i asked aunty "Y? Is it compulsory at her in laws place 2 wear sari ?".... Aunty nodded ... n went on sayin " yesbeta, wo Khandani log hai.. itzz d richest family in town.. dey r of d same community...D guys well settled ...n bla bla bla..."... Everythin ws fallin on deaf ears... my mind ws still nt ready 2 absorb dis gr8 shock... Finally my rebellious streak[ which i always kip at bay] got activated n i almost shrieked...i told aunty" Bt U had promised U will get her married in a mod family??"... Aunty said " yup.. d family is all mod.. D guys pretty outgoin... wl kip my daughter happy n d family is of our status..."..... I snarled " how can a family, which is so bound by traditions n customs n makes der daughter in laws wear saris ,b called mod?".... den aunty said in a defensive manner " Customs n traditions r our pride..n ek ladki ki sundarta indian attire mein hi dikhti hai[trust me had dis cum out of sum1 elses mouth he wud hv gt d deadliest luk ever 4m me... bt sumhw i controlled... yoga truly helps at times:):)]... n she will have 2 wear saree in front of her in laws... Its a mark of respect... Even we xpect d same 4m our daughter in laws as well.."..

Nw it ws d height 4 me... I snapped back n said" BUT wot does a saree has 2 do wid respect?... Do U mean dat people who dont wear sarees dont have respect 4 others... n after all...respect is not in what u wear... but itzz in ur attitude ,ur behaviour, ur eyes... i simply fail 2 understand y we fall victims 2 such century old traditions n customs which r truly irrelevant n baseless..... I told aunty dat tomorrow wen i wil get married,, i wil surely make it a point dat I m being part of such a family where I wl b treated like their own daughter... where i wont have 2 live under d burden of stupid customs... n well.. i know it vv well dat I will give my in laws equal respect, care n concern wot i had given 2 my parents..i trust my values 4 dat .. .n I can do dis by wearing denims as well... I mean where does my denim stops me 4m respectin my in laws? cant i cook food wearin denims?... R dos bitchy "K" serial bahus clad in sari better dan a sweet sensible gal wearin western outfits????? Does dat mean i wud luv my husband less in denims?.. Does wearin saree makes me d imperfect wife, Bahu...........Wot crap!!!! Gimme a break ya... "..

[ i guess i over reacted.... cuzz even though i ws born in a marwari household , my family is way too mod... n dats rite 4m d times of my granmom... so all dis stupid illogical stuff doesnt makes sense 2 me.. i hv been Gods favourite child i guess.... i ws blessed wid such freedom dat even my cuzins [guys] get d "J' feelin... . d bst of d education..U name it n I had it... I tuk my own decisions ,, so dat if nethin goes wrong I shud b able 2 take d entire blame on myself... mayb itzz jss d way i m moulded ...n m really vvv proud of my upbringin... My values r still v much intact... I guess i hv d bst of both d world...TOUCHWUD...... n a bigggg thnxxxx 2 my grandmom n parents 4 it...Luv U guys]....

Well dat ws a topic I cut short dat day cuzz i simply cant shout on my elders .. n it ws gonna b a non endin argument otherwise... [ 4 datmatter i cant shout at ne1... high pitched agitated voice is a big turn off 4 meh]... n i knew it ws all gonna b in vain explainin my views 2 people who live in a shell n r afraid of gettin free of d traditons...

I m nt sayin I dunn value D traditions..In fact m proud of d Indian culture..I truly believe Sari is indeed d most ethnic n d sexy outfit we have n i hv nothin against dem who wear it...Bt my point here is nobodys shud b forced 2 wear it if dey aint comfortable in it... We live in d largest democracy..we talk of our own rights... Den y d hell shud we stay under d burden of dis century old traditions which makes no sense... Cant we even dress up according 2 our choice? Y we wanna fall prey 2 such frivolous issues????? .... itzz been almost a year 4 dis incident... even 2day wen i think of it i turn gloomy n find myself helpless..... but m happy my friend hs found her perfect soulmate n wearin a sari is a v small price 4 it...

Bt I truly pray 2 God dat every1 shud seriously giv it a thought..D youngsters n d elders alike...We need 2 understand each other n stop fightin under d cover of Generation Gaps... Lets b like a sponge n b absorbent enuff 2 absorb all d gud things around ... n i wish even d elders break free of d mould n try n understand dis generations point of view as wel.....n even we youngsters understand der views cuzz itzz wot dey speak out of xperience n all 4 our benefit.. I guess itzz like a double edged sword... Giv it a thought guys

Happy readin... Tacay:):P

Monday, January 12, 2009

D 3 MISTAKES OF MY LYF!!!!!

It ws a bright sunny afternoon.... n as a matter of routine affair i bunkd my college[ i simply cant bear d borin college lectures] n went straight 2 Oxford bookstore at Cgate[ dis ws my second home den ]..Dis place which is usually pretty calm n serene appeared somewhat different day..much more hip n happenin!!! i tried 2 strain my brain cells n recollect if der ws any festive season round d corner,but nopes..der wrnt any... I asked 1 of d felly der "Y d place is so decked up"?..n pat came his reply"Mr.Chetan Bhagat is cumin 2 our store 2 launch his latest piece of work"....O freak..I got elated..really excited..[I had read Bhagats previous wrks FPS n ONATCC..Although hes not my favourite writer n i find his books really crappy at times ...n afta readin D3MOML.. i wl definitely say hes turned too filmy as well...n hw can 1 forget how his ON@DCC ws converted into dat dumb muvie" Hello"... It ws afta I saw Hello i started respectin Bhagat all d way again cuzz his buk ws mch less torture compared 2 d muvie...n i cursed d director of Hello 4 makin me waste 250 bucks on dat idiotic flick.. trust meh even 10 disprins cnt cure d headache which u get afta seein d muvie... itzzz realllyyyy pathetic...]...

N den afta 10 mins , Chetan arrived at d store... i ws xpectin a man .. in his mid 30s ,dat borin non smilin face, formals,[I mean a man wid intense brains n intelligence..i dunno y..bt i xpected him 2 b a nerd].... ...Bt guess wot?.. Der enters dis young chap... really cute ...n he ws in a pair of dis super kewl cargos n a fab tee..{ trust meh hes 1 of d cutest lukin guys i have met in my lyf.. n sumhw i really like him .. in d sense hes dat super kewl combo of IIM n IIT..hs a fabulously innate sense of humour n of course dat youthful, trendy knack in his writin skills:)...wen u read his work , it instantly strikes a chord wid u as it comes 4m a writer whose young,suave n yet has got gr8 mind n brain]... On seein him ,i simply popped out " Hey he luks so different dan d pic in his buks"?.... n m sure it fell on his ears.. HE jst turned bck n smiled...[ o gosh..wot a dazzzlin smile dat ws:P]...i got d wildest goosebumps ever n bit my tongue hard .....

Then I bought his book n it ws a special edition..So all of us were gonna get original copies autographed by Chetan..n den suddenly der ws an announcement by Chetan...He said" Guys, letss make d event more happenin.. I jss wanna u people 2 fill d first page of my latest book " The 3 Mistakes of my Life".. n whoseever answer appeals 2 me d most wil win a hamper of all my 3 Books exclusively autographed by me".. [I already had all his previous works ..so it dint xcite me much:P]...... so I opened my copy of D3MOML n saw d first page.....On it ws written..,, WRITE DOWN HONESTLY THE 3 MISTAKES OF UR LIFE!!!

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I thought 4 a while n started fillin in d spaces... HMM,.... well my first mistake... I jotted down der.. Selectin d Science stream in my Jc..[ I jst wish i Hd taken commerce so dat i wud have njoyed my Jc jst like My sis... n dos chem n physics pracs..grrrr:(].....In d second space, I wrote choosin Medicine as my profession den...n thirdly...Being friends wid #*&#%$.....

n den afta few mins i jst put a cross mark over all what i had written ...... It ws cuzz I realized dat i had nt taken science i wud hv nt njoyed d fab bio n chem pracs n wud hv never known d LS n V.s of brain..d IUPAC nomenclature n bla bla bla... [Itzz a gr8 feelin wen i score d highest marks in d college in Foundation Course xam in B.Com]... N yup had I opted 4 medicine , I wud hv wasted 10 yrs of my life [ bdw i have gr8 respect 4 d medicine profession n d docs], may b i wudn"t hv opted d gr8 profession I m in 2day.. n dats C.A....i simply luv my tax stuff, audit, adjustments, case files... itzz d best kinda study i ever wanted 2 do... n thirdly dis chap whose name i had put up was truly a source of entertainment in our lives n has truly helped me out at d crucial times.. ... So finally i realized dat ders nothing i wanna change 4m my past......

i jst wrote on d first page of d buk "Every ,so called , mistake i made seemed 2 b a mistake 2 me at dat point of tym in my life.. May b i had questioned God den "Y ME..WOT WRONG DID I DO?"....bt gradually as tym passed by ,I realized dat dis were d bst things dat ever happened 2 me in my life.. so these r not d mistakes of my life bt dis r the MILESTONES...D gr8 turnin points in my lyf which m gonna cherish 4ever..Lifes d greatest teacher I ever had..

I submitted my copy n got bsy checkin out some other books in d corner shelf,,,n suddenly out of nowhere came d voice of Chetan " Guys ..we have d winner wid us..n d winner is RUCHITA JAIN.... I ws so ngrossed in checkin out dis buk by Paulo COelho dat it dint hit me dat my name ws being announced.. my friend came 2 me n said" Gal..Congo..U hv won d hamper... N quick.. U r called on d stage"...it tuk me few seconds 2 understand wot ws happenin...n den suddenly i saw Chetan Bhagat in front of me..jst inches away..He congratulated me n told me 2 read out d answer in front of every1.....n den he said" Gr8 job..i luvd ur reply.. Pretty interestin...All d best. Gr8 meetin..."..i simply replied.." Dude , d pleasures all mine..kip rockin"...n i saw dos gr8 pair of piercin eyes smilin at me....:):)

I simply left d place blushin.....All pink in my cheeks... It ws truly a gr8 day!!!! n had i nt visited Oxford dat day wud hv been a mistake:P:P